This morning we met with Matt's oncologist and though he would like for us to meet with the surgeon first, he is moving ahead preparing Matt for chemotherapy. This afternoon he is getting another ct scan and then tomorrow morning at 8:00 am we meet with the surgeon and if he agrees that blockage to the colon is not imminent, Matt will get the port catheter put in at 9:00 am. This "port" as they refer to it as, is the site where the chemo is given and all blood work is taken. Monday will be the beginning of our journey to knock this cancer out. That is when the chemo will begin.
Matt is nervous. We argue back and forth about the difference between nervous and scared and he says he is only nervous. I am scared! :) But truthfully now that we have a plan in place I am feeling a lot more confident.
What I like best about this center is that everything is scheduled right away and there is little to no waiting. Waiting is the hardest thing to do when you are facing such a huge life threatening obstacle. They understand that here and are so kind and do all they can to shorten your wait time. I feel good about our choice to be here.
Tonight we are going out with Matt's brothers and their wives. It will be a nice break away from the hospital. Then my sister will bring our children here for the weekend. We want them to see the center and where dad will be coming for the next 6 months to get treatments.
Niki, just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and praying for your family. I'm glad you have good medical care and hope that all continues to progress well! Love you!
ReplyDeleteMy heart and prayers go out to all of you. Cancer shows little mercy, but with the love and support of a wonderful family and choice friends it makes it so much easier. These things make us live so much closer to the Spirit. You both have lived your lives so that when really hard times come your way you are more prepared. There are times that are really hard, but it is incredible the sweet feelings of peace that will be given to you because of your faithfullness. I have always admired your willingness to accept those things that our Heavenly Father has planned for you. I have been able to see your influence and character as I have gotten to know and love Tom. He is a very special young man and we love him. Love and prayers to all your family. Kathy Mullenaux
ReplyDeleteHey Matt, Niki, and family
ReplyDeletethis is perhaps my third or fourth time to try and write something to you as my heart gets full and water leaks from my eyes each time. Sarah Pace is so right that you will experience such wonderful spiritual experiences through these trials. yes Matt, it may be difficult and sickening at times, and Niki it will be hard to watch someone you love go through so much, but remember that our Heavenly Father knows you and what is happening and will bless you in so many ways as this journey begins. You will always have family and friends here on earth to love and support you, as you will with those who have already passed on. This whole life is about families and you may experience and receive greater strength from those on the other side of the veil and not really recognize it but they are there to comfort you and your family. As these expereriences happen, write them down to read later and give thanks to a loving Heavenly Father.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family and if we can help in any way please let us know.
Luke and Lisa Hatch